I would like to add as someone who has been on here for 6 years that there comes a point where your mind ascends and you run out of fucks entirely. Like an ancient vampire, you no longer have any angst about your condition and can live freely to feed off memes and discourse knowing that nothing on here can hurt you, because you’ve seen innumerable dramas and have lost count of the friends that disappeared into deletion. I was here when superwholock was born and I was here when it died. I watched you people piss into a ball pit. You cannot get worked up on this site when you’ve seen eternity and brought it into yourself. I recommend staying here because at some point you learn to control the matrix and this blue hell becomes fun again.
stop telling people that asking for help is manipulative and maybe they’ll act… better? some people genuinely need an ear to listen and get nothing and then u complain about emotional labor like yall ALL can’t be that tired???? youre telling me when a person exhausts their resources and reaches out unsuccessfully to the point that they’re close to self harm that it’s THEIR fault because people can’t deal with it? like no you do not need to know an extensive timeline of all the trauma that i’ve experienced but it would be nice if you could check up on your fucking friends and start a goddamn conversation with them for once and see how they’re doing like not everyone got time or money for a therapist just be a friend!!!!! have a fucking 5 minute talk with your buddy who’s really going through it like let them know they’re a person and that someone is fucking listening because it sucks feeling like you’re shouting into the void with no real indication that you’re being heard, and then to be told that you’re being borderline abusive just because you need support is fucking devastating it’s why we get like this!!! it’s why we do this drastic, histrionic, self-destructive bullshit we have no fucking outlet and we have to shut up otherwise it’s an inconvenience to others. im sick of this like im sick of borderline and im sick of feeling like no one cares
